Stuff I basically grew up on

When I was little, I always had these tomboyish tendencies. I would ask Santa for remote control cars instead of dolls, I tagged along with my brother’s guy friends and played their games, and I would almost always cry when asked to wear a dress for special occasions. But I know that this wasn’t quite because I was born that way; there were a lot of outside factors that have influenced why I behaved the way I did. Like the fact that I have an older brother whom I may have subconsciously imitated since he was older and unlike my parents, was still quite my age. He is only about two years older than me and therefore was also my usual playmate and companion at home. He mostly gets to choose the television shows back then, which were basically either Power Rangers or He-man, and I didn’t have a problem with that. I look back at those times and see them as funny memories whenever I would share that experience with my classmates. I’m actually happy that I can look back and laugh at the things that I basically grew up on.

 On to my next point, with me being the second child and all, most of the stuff I had was hand-me-downs from my brother. I got so used to wearing jeans and loose shirts that when I was finally asked to wear a skirt, I wasn’t comfortable, the get-up felt too “girly” for me. It also didn’t help that my relatives would tease me that “I finally became a girl” every time I would wear one. But then I’m glad my mom never really told me what to wear and that she didn’t really worry that I acted the way I did. I guess it’s because in our society today, female gender roles are pretty flexible and many people still find it acceptable even if a girl is being assertive or even if she wears jeans instead of dresses. Male gender roles aren’t as flexible though. If a boy is seen playing with dolls, crying, or wearing skirts for example, he would then be seen as “unmanly” or quite frankly, gay. My lola thinks differently than my mom though and maybe it’s because she is really old and in that sense have old-fashion or traditional outlooks on how someone should behave. I guess she had certain expectations on how males and females should think, act, and feel that she was afraid that I would grow up to be a tomboy.

But as I began to hit puberty, although my mom never really forced me to wear stuff I didn’t like, she would almost always give hints on what she would like me to be wearing. Like for example if we pass by a store with frilly shirts or dresses on display, she would comment that she would wear those things if only she was younger- like me. Or that if we see a chubby girl pass by, she would tell me that if that girl could do it then so should I. I’d laugh at her comments and disagree to come inside “girly looking” shops. With this, I’m happy to say that I have Authoritative parents. My parents don’t necessarily dictate stuff on us and they hear out our opinions. Extensive verbal give-and-take is allowed, but there are still limits on how much we can “talk back”. Although we are encouraged to be independent and have our say on things, there are still boundaries on our behavior and in that way I see my parents as warm and nurturing.

I guess its all part of growing up, but one way or another, you finally start really noticing the people around you and become self-conscious, I knew I did anyways. In parties, when I was somewhat forced to wear dresses I felt awkward and left-out when I didn’t wear a dress but otherwise felt pretty when I didn’t wear one. I finally overcame my cousin’s taunts about me finally “becoming a girl” that it gradually wore off and finally vanished. I guess it’s all about not caring what other people think and making a stand at what you are comfortable with that you overcome your fears.

Notes:
Gender roles-- Expectations for how females and males should think, act and feel. Boys are reared to be “masculine” (powerful, aggressive and independent) and girls brought up to be “feminine” (sensitive to others, good at relationships, and less assertive).

Gender Role Flexibility
Americans tend to disapprove more of boys engaging in feminine behavior (playing with dolls and crying) than of girls playing a masculine behavior (being a tomboy and assertive) Female gender roles are somewhat more flexible than male gender roles.

Industry vs Inferiority
Industry vs inferiority occurs from the age of 6 until puberty. Children can achieve industry by mastering knowledge and intellectual skills. When they do not they can feel inferior.

Identity vs Identity Confusion
Individuals are faced with finding out who they are, what they are all about, and where they are going in life. An important dimension is the exploration of alternative solutions to roles.

Attending the Breakout Youth Fellowship Seminar

It’s actually been a while since I last attended a youth fellowship seminar; it’s good that it hasn’t changed much and everyone is still there to find a way on how to live a more purpose driven life. To add to that, Breakout was all about ‘freedom’, and from listening I realized just how misunderstood a concept this is. Freedom does not mean having the ability to do whatever you want to do or having no responsibilities or obligations, freedom is actually being free from shackles and sin, and being free to do right decisions.

 “Lies imprison but the truth gives freedom.”

The Pursuit of Liberty starts with knowing the truth, and with knowing you can be free from Satan’s deception. You will be able to resist Satan’s peer pressure and no longer feel inclined to do things that you know are wrong.

Next there is the Procurement of Liberty, where you confess your wrongdoings, repent, and wholeheartedly accept the truth. By believing we shall be set free; and from then we should choose to live that freedom in our daily lives.

Finally, there is the Proclamation of Liberty. It is not enough that you seek and acquire freedom; you should now spread the good news. We have a lot of work to do, so that the blind can finally see and the captives set free.


There is that gap that separates man and God, and that is the pit of sin. And the way to get across is not just through good works or religious activities, but by hearing, receiving and believing in Him.

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” John 14:6

Beyond All Limits: Export Management Conference Reaction Paper

This is actually the first time I have attended an Export Management conference, and it’s a good thing, always nice to learn something new in this field. As young as I am, I still have a lot to learn before I can produce and eventually export my own products. I didn’t really think about what to expect before hand, but I knew I was looking forward to great talks from people who have ‘been there and done that’ before. And to hear that it is time for us, the new generation, to come up with something great to offer to the world market and beyond.

So anyways, my favorite part of the conference was actually the talk by the first speaker, Ms. Luz Suplico Jeong. From her presence alone, you can tell that she is one of those people who have gone wise through the years and have had tons of experience (30 years in fact) in the field of export. I also feel that exporting really is her passion, and this is one of the main reasons why she managed to become so successful. Anyhow, it is good that whenever she gave advice, she was able to back it up with actual facts. Just from the data she presented, she was able to come up with awesome tips for us future exporters from the Philippines.

First, exporters have to ‘diversify products’, mainly because overdependence in on one product (such as electronics which account for 60% of Philippine exports) leaves us vulnerable when demand decreases. With this, she told us that it might be good to look into developing service exports so there will be no need for labeling, containers, freight cost, tariff, and other things related to shipping goods; but of course with services there is also a greater need to satisfy the customer. Anyways, it is good to know that there is a body that comes up with rules for trade in services, namely General Agreement on Trade in Services (GATS). When I think of Exporting, the first thing that comes to mind is dealing with tangible products, so I definitely learned something new here. Maybe I would look into the service exports and see how I can make use of world class Filipino labor.

Next, she told us that the Philippines should also ‘diversify markets’ seeing as overdependence on one market (i.e. U.S.) leaves us vulnerable when that market is hit, by let’s say, a recession. Our exports actually fell from 50B to 38B just because of the U.S. housing bubble in 2009. We can see from her just how important it is to also export to emerging markets such as Brazil, Russia, India, and China (BRIC). This definitely makes a lot of sense to me, that way there would also be less export competition. More and more borders are coming down, so it is time to venture into less crowded markets and see how we can earn from there.

Then she also talked about how important it is to always be ‘prompt with deliveries’, especially if you do not want to be fined. Like for example that you have to deliver within 30-60 days upon receiving the Letter of Credit (LC). If I am the customer, I would of course want to see my goods delivered on time; I feel that this is a good way to forge trust. It’s always nice to make a good first impression and deliver.

After that, she related to us why there should be ‘continuous product development’ especially in this fast paced world. Through a notable person, namely Kenneth Cobonpue, she was able to elaborate the importance of continued innovation, and how it has worked amazingly for him so far. One day I’d like to also be known for a product, must be nice to know that people appreciate your work. I’m glad for Kenneth’s success; it only proves that the Filipino is also capable of coming up with world class products.

Lastly, she talked about why one must ‘consider civic oriented groups’ seeing as more and more people are becoming aware of people’s contribution in making the world a bad place to live in. You should make sure that your export products are in no way responsible in drastically harming the environment. It is important to preserve life and protect endangered faura and fauna. Since I was young I have always been an environmentalist. I’m easily angered when needless harm is done to the environment and I always try to look for ways to conserve and recycle. When I start my own export business, I will definitely make sure to follow environment friendly standards.

With everything she told us, I thought the most important thing she imparted on us were these words, “To whom much is given, much is required”. One day, I would like to give back my share to the world.

Now there were also other people who talked in front, such as students who presented unique products they have come up with. I’m actually pretty excited of coming up with my own product in the future and then defending it in front of a panel like that. Who knows, maybe it could be the product that can make me as famous as Kenneth Cobonpue! I like subjects with practical applications in the real world, and coming up with my own product to sell is definitely very practical.

All in all, I have learned a lot from the Export Management Conference, and I am looking forward to more seminars in the future. It would be totally awesome to hear more success stories in the field I’m in, the field of export marketing. Little by little, Filipinos are taking over the world, and I hope I can be one of them.

My Trip to Manila Fame 2012

I can’t help but compare Manila Fame with the last fair we were tasked to go to. I have to say that Manila Fame was at a whole different level. The people handling the booths looked a lot more professional, the set ups were grander, and there were more unique items displayed. I guess that’s because the ones who made the items are top notched designers set at the international standard. They can’t display just anything; else they won’t be able to grab international attention. I saw a lot of foreigners going around, and I’m pretty sure they are looking for ingenuity and uniqueness.

I had a fun time looking around and seeing exhilarating designs, too bad you can’t take photographs. Well, I understand that it was mainly because they didn’t want anyone copying their work. It was also too bad that I can’t purchase any of the items, mainly because they were all geared for export. You have to buy like maybe 200 pieces or $10,000 worth of merchandise just to take home a design you liked.

There weren’t as much people as I thought there would be though, maybe because I went there early Friday morning. But every now and again, I would see buyers inquiring about the price and how many they should buy of a particular product. I also see people praising the designer’s work and really wishing they could take some home. As for me, I really wanted buy a round table that was also served as a working clock. It was quite an ingenious design and it was the first time I saw one like that. There was also a huge chair that had a mirror, and actually served as a dresser. I really think it would go nicely with my room. There was also a jumbo chess set, that would probably force me to play chess even if I don’t like the game.

There were also more of the cliché items, like the ones made with shells. Well I guess it makes sense that designers use shells as raw materials, seeing as the Philippines IS surrounded by water. Those made of shells in particular were very cheap, and I couldn’t help thinking that sea shells are being severely exploited by the exporters. In any case, I observed that Capiz shells were the ones most used, from making frames, being shaped into fruits, coasters, and the like. I really liked it when they used big shells that were accentuated by metal dragons or snakes. I think they really do have an international market for those.

All in all, the fair was a wonderful learning experience. One day I actually hope to export as well and now I have an idea of how you would be able to advertise your products to the international community through trade fairs. Now, I just have to come up with an ingenious product… :)